Slow down in case of emergency, calm in case of major events, change in times of difficulty

in life, many people lose their temper when something happens.

but there are also people who "Mount Tai collapses in front and does not change his face" to figure out a way to solve the current predicament with a clear head in times of crisis.

in fact, a person's first reaction to an accident hides the knowledge, insight, character and self-cultivation he has accumulated in the course of growing up.

how to deal with and solve problems can best see a person's bearing and breadth of mind, insight and pattern.

01

be slow in case of emergency

urgent matters always give people pressure and disturb their minds.

slow is to calm down the state of mind first, observe carefully, sort out the train of thought, and determine the plan, which is the opportunity to prepare for subsequent action, so as to achieve twice the result with half the effort.

when you encounter an emergency, if you are impatient and eager for success, you will often make mistakes.

Zhou Rong recorded such a story in his Chunhan Tang Collection in the Qing Dynasty.

one winter, Zhou Rong wanted to enter the county from a nearby river port and ordered the children to tie up a large pile of books with wooden clips to follow.

it's getting late, the sun is about to set, and there are still about two miles to look at the county seat.

he asked the ferryman, "is it too late before the city gate closes?"

the ferryman looked at the schoolboy carefully and replied, "go slowly, it's OK; leave in a hurry, and then close it."

Zhou Rong thought that the ferryman was playing with them, so he walked quickly with the bookboy.

halfway, the child fell, the rope broke, and the books were scattered all over the floor. By the time the books were sorted and tied up, the gate in front of him had been tightly closed.

Zhou Rong commented after the article:

instead of making mistakes in a hurry, it would be better to slow down and do a good job.

slow down when you encounter an emergency, give yourself a mood and environment to do things, and then immerse yourself in this and selfless work can often achieve twice the result with half the effort.

when the state of mind and action are stable, it will be perfect.

02

when you encounter a major event, you should be "quiet"

the Daojing says, "stillness is an impetuous monarch."

"stillness" can overcome impatience in people.

keeping quiet is the basis for one to sharpen one's will and cultivate one's character.

in life, we often encounter a lot of unexpected situations.

the more anxious you are, the more confused your mind will be and the easier it will be to screw things up.

A lot of wisdom in life is often hidden in calmness and calmness.

read Mr. Yang Jiang's "the three of us" and was impressed by her sentence "it doesn't matter".

the door shaft in the house is broken and the door can't be closed. She smiled and said, "it doesn't matter."

Qian Zhongshu had a scabies on her head and was upset. "it doesn't matter," she comforted.

whenever something depressed happens to her husband, she gently advises "it doesn't matter".

she is calm and calm all her life, and no matter what happens, she never seems to be in a panic.

behind the simple words "never mind", Yang Jiang's philosophy of "seeking stability by meditation" is hidden.

when you are about to do something, you can calm all kinds of worries as calmly as you do when you are free, then what has already happened will naturally disappear.

it takes calmness to make decisions, to make decisions, and to get things done.

03

things in distress should be "changed"

there is a saying in the Book of changes: "become all things without leaving behind."

all things in the world are often twists and turns and cycles.

when we are alive, we always encounter many difficult things that cannot be solved.

when you encounter difficulties, if you don't change your mind in time, you will easily get stuck in the corner and can't extricate yourself.

"if the mountains don't come, I'll pass." when you encounter difficulties, you can often solve problems by being flexible and turning your mind around.

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Life is like a process of drilling a well.

if you can't get water in one place, and you persist in playing, it will only waste more time and energy, and in the end it will be in vain.

be flexible in time, analyze calmly, and find a place to drill wells where it is easier to get out of the water before you can find clear spring water.

Li Haju of the Song Dynasty said: "the art of saving malpractice is not as great as change."

rivers flow into the distance because they are good at turning;

wise people are good at changing their thinking and solving difficulties with the help of external forces, and the problem will be easily solved.

it is precisely our thinking that needs to change at critical moments and difficult times.

04

when things go well, Confucius has a saying, "A gentleman is not arrogant and does not honor his merits."

do not take yourself too seriously, it is a kind of self-cultivation and a kind of maturity in mentality.

"there must be people who will come later, and they will imitate the ancients before." Save me from time to time and be a superior person. "

there are mountains beyond the mountains, but there are people outside the people.

people with a large pattern are more introverted when they are "complacent".

actor Chen Daoming is full of poetry and books and is upright. Ji Xianlin highly praises his knowledge, and Qian Zhongshu has made friends with him.

in an environment where everyone calls himself a "teacher," Chen Daoming always thinks of himself as an "actor." he said, "acting is my profession, and I am an actor." You can't take yourself too seriously. "

modest, low-key, introverted, moderate, will make a person's mind more broad, the pattern more ambitious.

keeping a humble heart at all times is the biggest card of being a man.

monthly profit leads to loss, and water overflows.

Wood is better than the forest, and the wind will destroy it; if you walk higher than man, you must be wrong.

the larger the pattern, the more modest and low-key people are, the lower they are, the higher they are, the more modest they are, and the more they achieve themselves.

as the ancients said, "the taste is in the thing, the heart is in the body."

the real character and pattern will be reflected in the response and handling of things.

when we are born in the world, we have to face countless things and choices. when we are broad enough, there will be fewer difficulties, and when we have a high enough vision, the world will be small.

at the critical moment, if we take a long view and enlarge the pattern, our lives will reach a different level.